These blog posts intimidate me.

I have an aversion (that I haven’t quite figured out yet) to theorizing. It may be my undeveloped understanding of theory, but far too often in my readings, theory feels like far-fetched speculation substantially removed from the core of the story (or poem). As I said, I haven’t really figured out where this comes from, but it is a comfort to run across accomplished writers and teachers that I catch similar vibes from.

I was reading from the O’Connor extras in our book and on the bottom of 853, the text reads, “I’m frequently appalled at the questions students ask me about my stories and at the very learned and literary interpretations they come up with. I was recently at a college where a student asked me, in a voice loaded with cunning: ‘Miss O’Connor, what is the significance of the Misfit’s hat?’ Of course, I had no idea the Misfit’s hat was significant, but finally I managed to say, ‘Its significance is to cover his head.’ Those students went away thinking that here was a real innocence, a writer who didn’t know what she was doing!”

I think Flannery O’Connor knew what she was doing. I believe she was aware that she put a hat on the Misfit’s head, and as she said here, it was to cover his head. We already discussed this idea of letting theory run away with a piece with our first “treat” of the semester. It gets out of hand sometimes, and I am afraid I tend to err on the safe side of extrapolation. That said, I will continue with a legitimate post.

In Parker’s Back, I fixated on the attraction the characters had (and did not have) for one another. My favorite comedic moment in the story is on page 663. Just after Parker made his move on Sarah Ruth in his truck (and she puts an abrupt stop to them—score one for the women), Parker “made up his mind then and there to have nothing further to do with her.” Then we have a graph break. The next sentence is: “They were married in the County Ordinary’s office because Sarah Ruth thought churches were idolatrous.” That is simply perfect. I laughed out loud when I was reading, and I don’t laugh out loud when reading. That exchange is a microcosm of their relationship in general. It’s a moment that I tick off on the summary list of The Nature of the Main Characters’ Relationship.

Through the story, Parker is compelled (intuitively?) to follow through with things in his head that he wants out of. The story starts out with and explanation of how Parker couldn’t understand why he hadn’t left his wife yet, then moves to how they got together in the first place, which still doesn’t make sense.

Sarah Ruth’s attraction to Parker is as compelling as Parker’s to Sarah Ruth. Parker is compelled to be with Sarah Ruth despite what his head says. That is evident due to our focalization through Parker’s head. (We are set up for that from the first two words: “Parker’s wife…”. We are set up for seeing things as they relate to Parker.) But Sarah Ruth’s place in the marriage is, for me, rooted in being married off and taken care of. She comes from a large, hungry family, after all. We also learn that she is intrigued by Parker’s tattoos, no? She lets her guard down when he first asks which one is her favorite, and she says that, “…the chicken is not as bad as the rest.” So there is something in those tattoos for her, even if it is further providing that Parker is flawed and she can save him, in multiple senses of the word.

That is a start, but what else is keeping these two together? In the “after the story ends” world, do they stay together? I like to think so, but I don’t think I can articulate why quite yet. Any thoughts?

4 Comments:

  1. Josie said...
    I was also intrigued by the relationship between Sarah Ruth and Parker and found myself trying to solve it as if it were some sort of mystery. I agree with you that Sarah partly stays with him because he provides her with a sense of security. Also, perhaps she is attracted to Parker by his tattoos because they represent his weaknesses, and since they are visible to everyone who sets eyes on him, at least his faults are straightforward. Maybe she feels that she can "fix" him because his faults are so apparent. The reason I think Parker is attracted to her is because she doesn't fall right into his lap. I got the impression that, before Sarah Ruth appeared in the picture, he could've had any woman he wanted. He says that he wants to please her, and because she isn't pleased at the end, I agree with you that they will likely stay together.
    Chels said...
    I have contemplated this issue as well. I could be incredibly sentimental and say that sometimes people fall in love without knowing why, but this doesn't really seem to be love (in any sense of romance, at least). I think Sarah Ruth was raised to get married, and she knew that Parker could take care of her needs and was probably just as good as any other guy would be. Plus he has that strange attraction to her, and who knows how many guys came a'callin for her? I do agree with Josie in that Parker probably wanted her because she didn't jump on him the second he saw her. he too probably likes the chase (as many men do, I'm told). I was under the impression that they wouldn't get back together, but who knows? They just might seeing as they both are so intrigued by each other. Maybe that intrigue comes from the fact that they just don't understand each other.
    Sara Katherine said...
    I like what Josie said: "...he wants to please her, and because she isn't pleased at the end ... they will likely stay together." I hadn't thought of that on my own, but it makes good sense to me. It actually reminds me of a theory that's pretty well-respected in the family counseling field called family systems theory. It basically holds that every family is, yeah, a system, and a totally unique one at that. The members in a family operate as elements. Each element tends to work in the larger system as a particular way - the mother may be a constant nag, for instance, or the middle daughter may be the one who gets picked on and never complains, or the youngest son may be a show-off or a rebel. Whatever the particulars of a family, one thing I really found interesting is that it's typical, expected behavior for all the family elements to react negatively if one of the family members acts in a way that's contrary to his/her historical role in the family. The theory states that the system will use any tactics at its disposal in order to nudge the person who's stepping out of his/her normal role back into that role. (Wow, long enough explanation ...)

    In this case, you might say that Parker's role is to go about his life, trying to please Sarah Ruth as best as he can figure to, and that Sarah Ruth's role is to be displeased. My feeling immediately after finishing the story, and my feeling now, is that Parker and Sarah Ruth will stay unhappily wed, if not forever, then at least for many years to come.

    Actually, when I think about it, Sarah Ruth's reaction to the Christ tattoo on Parker's back fits quite well into the family systems thing. It's not in Parker's role description to be religious or God-fearing, so when he puts Jesus on his skin, Sarah Ruth uses some pretty convincing negative feedback to put him back in his place. Hmm ... I may have stumbled on an idea for my final presentation that seems fascinating to me.
    Neena said...
    It is intimidating to put your thoughts out there for others to read when you haven't completely formulated them yet. But I guess we just have to look at blogging as a chance to just that, work through our ideas and get input from others before we've completely made up our minds about things. I guess we just don't want to be wrong. I am finding though that I do want to know if others don't agree with my initial ideas. It gives me direction in my formulating. I like what you have said in your blog on "Parker's Back." I wonder if part of their relationship is based on ideas they have about each other that are idealistic. The more Sarah Ruth tells Parker he is vain, idolitrous or otherwise sinful, he seems to be more intreaged with her, or more desirous that she accept him. It's like he wants to see how far he can get when she views him as bad. Sarah seems willing to talk with him, but she regards him as if he were "a stray pig or goat that had wandered into the yard(p.660). It is only when he tells her his name that she seems more interested: "Her face slowly brightened as if the name came as a sign to her (p.662)." I wonder if in her mind she sees their names fit, so they must. Simple, I know. I'm not sure Sarah thinks she is there to save Parker, but I think Parker believes that Sarah is there to save him, simply from statements he makes. When Sarah asks Parker if he's been saved, he jokes by saying "I'd be saved enough if you was to kiss me." Maybe he really believes her acceptance will somehow save him.

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